A new era

If I could give you any type of advice right now, it is to never EVER attempt planning a life changing event during a business trip that requires your undivided attention. My emotions are a complete rollercoaster, and my physical status is similar to a crumbling biscuit.  I never realized how nerve wracking it would be second time round and I am extremely surprised that I am now remembering my first time was nothing like this, not even close. I barely had anything to worry about first time round despite it being multiple functions, in different countries and lots to prepare for. Now, however, it is a completely different ball game but why is it that much more challenging? shouldn't it be easier and a lot more direct? apparently not. I wouldn't call myself a people pleaser but disappointing my mother is never an option for me. It has always been about seeing mum happy. Always have, always will be. So let me explain the difference this time that I quickly realized...... First tim...

 It's a busy time and I barely have energy to sit and focus on blogging however I try my best to "make time" because I know how good it makes it feel and I try to somehow inspire a person or two while I am at it. Speaking of making time, I recently came to a very heartwarming realization that it is never impossible for someone to make time for you, despite the busy-ness of life. I think it's important for us to sometimes stop and take a moment to truly be grateful that someone would slide things aside, even if for a short time, just to be present for us. It may be a chat over a cup of coffee, a walk, a phone call or better yet, a video call. Most times, if not always, we find excuses not to do certain things because we "don't have time", but is that really the case? one of my cousins, who I am extremely proud of, has dedicated time for his health and worked hard exercising and eating better. It reflected so much in his self confidence and self esteem. As...